Teaching kids financial responsibility

by admin | Consumer Proposal, Credit Counseling, Uncategorized

One of the things we constantly preach about in terms of savings is to start early in order to make it easier to budget and maximize your investment, and the same thinking applies to learning financial responsibility — start learning early.

Now, it may be a bit late for readers of this column, but you can “pay it forward” by teaching your children the importance of watching their finances, both in terms of budgeting their daily spending effectively and also saving for the things they want.

It’s still fine to hand over a couple bucks, but many homes have done away with the action of simply handing over a few bucks to children, simply “allowing” them to be children. The fact is that in today’s consumer market, money does not go far, so it’s important to teach children (a) the value of money, (b) how to budget, and (c) how to save.

Teaching the value of money is not as easy as saying “money doesn’t grow on trees.” I prefer “money is so hard to earn and so easy to spend.”

Keying in on the first part of that statement, give your child a chance to make more money. Say you give your child $5 per week as a “base salary.” He or she gets this just for being your kid. The idea is that some things are expected for this allowance — just as you cook meals for your family and run the vacuum around, they are expected to get themselves ready for school on time, brush their teeth and hair every day, bathe regularly and keep their rooms in some sort of order.

But then also give them the chance to earn more money — a commission, so to speak. Cleaning up their rooms once a week may be worth another dollar, putting their dirty clothes in the laundry room hamper may be worth a dime, putting away clean clothes in the dresser could be worth another dime, loading or emptying the dishwasher may be a 25-cent task, hauling the trash to the curb is worth a quarter, etc.

This shows them that working harder earns more money — a lesson that will resonate well with them when they get out into the working world — and that they can control their own earnings. At the same time, you can teach them the basics of handling money.

A good way to start is with the jar theory of budgeting, where you literally label jars or envelopes “groceries,” “gasoline” and “fun,” as examples, and then put actual money (the ubiquitous debit card is making the whole thing harder too!) in them to cover those costs as they arise, taking out the exact amount of money to pay.

For children, you can start off with something as simple as a jar labelled “spend” and another labelled “save” and have them break off their earnings into cash they want to spend right away and money they want to save up for something bigger. Depending on your values, you may want to add a third jar — give — to illustrate the importance of charity.

So at the end of the week, instead of handing over a $5 bill, for example, give them five loonies and they have to put at least one in each of the jars. This teaches them planning — you can choose to save just one dollar and spend the rest, but then reaching that goal of a new video game, for example, will take a considerable amount of time. Similarly, they may choose to bank $3 toward that video game more quickly, but then they will only have enough for one chocolate bar, for example. They can also move money between the jars, so if they find themselves short halfway through the week, they can take some out of their savings, or if they have surplus cash-on-hand, they could choose to add it to their savings. The “give” jar, if you have one, should be regarded as untouchable — what goes in there stays in there.

As kids get older, you may want to introduce more financial responsibility into their lives, such as giving teenagers a back-to-school lump-sum payment and allowing them to spend it on clothes, shoes and backpacks as they see fit, rather than dragging you to the store and expecting you to buy name-brand everything because “that’s what all my friends are getting.”

It’s fairly simple and kids get an idea of the gives and takes of money handling. In the process, you may also find that breaking down the handling of money into simple terms makes budgeting a lot less complex.

Signs you are over your money woes

by admin | Consumer Proposal, Credit Counseling, Uncategorized

A lot is said about recognizing when you’re in financial trouble, with the idea being that you can fix your situation if you recognize early enough that you’re in trouble, but not much is written about how to know that you’re financially healthy or that your money woes are behind you.

Ironically, in order to know that you’ve put your financial problems behind you, you have to understand and recognize the signs when you were sailing into financial dire straits, so you can avoid them and “do the opposite.”

Overcoming financial difficulties is a bit like overcoming cancer — early detection gives you a better chance of a successful recovery. Having ignored, or not recognized, those signs, you found yourself trying to stay afloat in rough financial waters. Regardless of what you’ve done to reach safe harbour, you now want to enjoy the calm seas for a while, and preferably forever. So what are the signs that you’ve turned the corner?

The slush fund — that cash stash that will help you weather a financial storm is a must. Most analysts suggest having at least three-months’ worth of living expenses (rent, groceries, utilities, gas money … the essentials) in an emergency fund. Having this emergency fund means that even if a life-altering event were to happen (lose a job, have to take on heavy medical costs, relationship break-up, etc.), you could survive for three months during which you can enact a turnaround (find a new job, downsize your living arrangements, etc.). When you consistently start to see the balance in your savings account going up every month, instead of constantly being taken down to zero, you could be on your way to financial recovery. It may take some time to set aside that three-month slush fund, but every step forward means you’re on your way.

Credit card payments — once you start making more than the minimum monthly payment on your credit card, it means that you’re paying off your debt instead of just keeping your head above water. Many people don’t know that paying only the minimum on $1,000 costs you almost as much to finance that amount and takes you over a decade to pay off. It’s not cause to celebrate your financial independence just yet, but every journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.

Sticking to a budget — it may seem like a simple thing, but a lot of people who get into financial difficulty don’t have a budget, and if they do, they don’t pay attention to it. They don’t always do it out of ignorance or apathy but in many cases they don’t even bother with a budget because they’re always in the red. Consciously drawing up a budget makes you realize you are in control of your spending, and then looking at your financial comings and goings on a regular basis will not only keep you on track but help you see how relatively easy it is to stay ahead of the game.

Finally, you’re answering the phone again — when things start going bad, creditors start calling; once they do, you find yourself ignoring phone calls or being selective about answering the phone. After all, creditors don’t usually leave messages and anybody from whom you want to receive calls will either leave a message or get hold of you some other way. And in this day of caller ID, it’s easy to see on the display if it’s a call you want to take or ignore. Once those bills are being paid regularly and you’re on the road to recovery, you’ll find yourself answering the phone a lot more often.

Putting the fun back into budgeting

by admin | Consumer Proposal, Credit Counseling, Uncategorized

If you run your own business, you’re familiar with Entertainment Expenses. That’s the category to which you can assign money you spend entertaining clients or potential new clients, with the final resolution that you drum up some business.

The idea is that you spend a little to make your clients feel appreciated, and they give you back more than the cost of a dinner, sports tickets or a break at a café. Canada Revenue Agency generally allows you to claim 50% of a reasonable dinner/entertainment bill. The idea is that you consume half of what your total bill is, and they’re not going to pay for your meal. There are exceptions for occupations such as long-haul truck driver or bike courier, because they are required to eat in order to continue doing their jobs. For the average entrepreneur, the CRA doesn’t usually bat an eye if you spend $650 per year on entertaining.

But what about in terms of your household budget? Should you factor in some “entertainment” expenses if for nothing else than to feel as if you’re not spending everything you make on the drudgery of staying afloat financially?

Most experts agree that you should. But how much of your monthly budget should you assign to it?

If you work with the CRA figure, a person may think about spending $55 a month on entertainment (movies, fast foods, afternoon lattes, etc.). That’s for one person. If you want to budget for your wife or children, you may want to expand on that. Most experts agree that you shouldn’t be budgeting more than 5% of your paycheque, though, since there are other things that should take priority in your spending (utilities, debt repayment, rent, etc., and yes, even savings).

So, if you’re bringing home $1,000 every two weeks, for example, and you’re effectively covering off your house payments and debts, you may consider putting $50 into the “fun” jar.

You may think that doesn’t allow you much fun outside of your everyday routine, and so vacations are out of the question, but vacations are probably best included in your long-term planning, a separate budget category that is taken care of by your savings.

Your savings is money for your future, so in effect you’re stocking money away today for future fun — short-term financial pain for longer-term financial fun, if you will. Some people put savings away for their retirement and forget about having fun until then. There are examples of couples investing heavily in their retirement, with hopes of travelling the continent in a motorhome, only to have one of the spouses pass away suddenly and the surviving one wishing they had spend more money on living with each other now, rather than waiting for a tomorrow that now will never come.

Say you put away 10% of your paycheque into a high-yield savings account (which these days is about 3%). At the end of the year, you’ll have over $2,600. That’s a pretty good vacation for two every couple years, even at today’s prices, and you’re still contributing toward your retirement (albeit, not much).

As with any budgeting, the idea is to make your paycheque cover the essentials and plan for the things you want to do, rather than build up more debt living unsustainably.

So, figure out what you can afford to put away for “fun” and be regimented in making sure you put that money away. And be patient about spending it. The money will eventually be there to take off for Cuba, or buy a big screen TV, or just have a meal at a fancy restaurant and perhaps spend the night away at a downtown hotel. You just have to wait for it to arrive.