Stress out over debts-Brampton-Mississauga-Ontario

Are your debts making you sick? There’s a growing mountain of research that says it sure can. The journal Social Science and Medicine, for example, released a study that found individuals with higher debt had higher blood pressure, higher stress levels, and poorer general health — and this was in young people, aged 24 to 32. In a 2008 AP-AOL study at the height of the US mortgage crisis, those reporting high levels of debt stress suffered from stress-related illnesses including ulcers, migraines, back pain, anxiety, depression and even heart attacks.

Stress triggers the same fight-or-flight response that’s plagued humanoids since the beginning of time — the effects of reacting to a shrinking bank account can be the very same as being surprised by a saber-tooth tiger. Your heart races, stress chemicals like adrenaline and cortisol are released into your system, and you’re poised to take on the tiger or run like hell. But when it’s the bank account getting to you, tiger-slaying isn’t an option, and the stress can just build and build. Hearburn, headaches, and stomach knots are all common symptoms of a build-up of stress.

It’s a vicious cycle in the bedroom, too, where anxiety about debts keeps you up, and you can’t heal from the anxiety because you’re sleep-deprived. Your reaction times and creativity are affected, so you’re not performing as well through the day, which makes you worry and stay up at night.

But it’s not the amount of debt that can make your heart race, it’s weather you let it get to you

According to Stanford University researcher Kelly McGonigal, PhD, “Basically, it invades your home, your work, what you’re able to provide for your family, and your fantasies for the future. There are studies that show it’s not how much money you owe that predicts depression and health problems. It’s how much you worry about it.”

If your worries about money and the stress they create are starting to affect your health, here are some ways to cope better:

–          Think about the worst-case scenario. This may sound counter-intuitive, but sticking your head in the sand or coping with drugs, alcohol, food, or other crutches are short-term “solutions” at best. Look down the road at the bigger picture and realize that there is no tiger at the door. Your life is not in jeopardy. Your kids are healthy. You are blessed to live in a great country. Even if you lose your house, you won’t end up on the street. You’ll still have your family. If you love your work or your hobby, even better. Concentrate on the positive.

–          Write it out. Journalling can be a powerful coping mechanism for stress. Keep a little notebook handy and every time you find yourself stressing about money, jot down the worry, as well as any ideas for something you could do to help alleviate the worry, such as give up your Starbucks coffee in the morning or calling a friend to unload a little of your burden.

–          Start doing better. Meet with a credit counsellor, set up a spending plan, and start behaving in a way that will help you get different results in the future.

Remember what Shakespeare said — nothing is either good or bad, but thinking makes it so. Yes, you should take steps to clear your debts and relieve the associated stress by eliminating the root cause, but in the meantime, learning to cope without stressing over things you’re not in a position to immediately change might even save your life.

When it comes to taxes, bankruptcy provides only temporary relief

On of the things that get many people in debt trouble and on the road to bankruptcy, especially self-employed people or small business owners, is non-payment of taxes. Income tax debt can pile up very fast because it never goes away unless you pay it all off (or most of it, under a consumer proposal) or it is discharged in bankruptcy.

The annoying part is that whereas other debts don’t come back unless you don’t learn your lesson and fall back into bad habits, income tax owning keeps accumulating as you work hard (literally!) to meet your proposal or bankruptcy obligations.

There are really three problems in dealing with income tax debt: getting up to date on income tax owing, straightening out your current income tax return and staying on top of future income tax payments.

In a bankruptcy, one of the bankruptcy trustee’s first tasks is to file an income tax return for the year prior to bankruptcy. The trustee must then file a return for the current year up to the time of bankruptcy. And then you must file a return for the remainder of the current year before the tax deadline in the coming year.

The past tax owing gets lumped in with all your other debts, under certain conditions, and it will be eliminated when you are discharged from bankruptcy. However, if income tax debt is your biggest debt (as is the case in most bankruptcies), it may not be automatically discharged when you emerge from bankruptcy (especially if it tops $200,000 or if it accounts for more than 75% of your debt).

However, there are other paths you can explore prior to filing for bankruptcy.

First and foremost is applying to the Canada Revenue Agency (CRA) for debt relief. The CRA may exempt payment of penalties or fines if the financial hardship was caused by extenuating circumstances such a physical duress (an accident or serious illness), emotional stress (such as that created by a death or divorce), natural or man-made disasters (such as floods or fires), or civil disturbances or disruptions of services (such as a lengthy postal strike or government shut-down).

Payment relief may also be available if the cause of the debt stress was related to CRA actions, such as processing delays or errors, not providing information in a timely manner to the individual or providing information later deemed erroneous, or undue delays in processing on the agency’s part.

And lastly, relief may also be granted if you can show an inability to pay due to loss of employment, if the interest penalties are a significant portion of the amount owed, or if repayment would result in considerable hardship to provide the basic necessities of life (food, shelter, medical help or transportation).

In the case of a small business, relief may also be granted if having to repay the outstanding amount might lead operations to cease, cause job losses or somehow influence the well-being of a community.

If relief cannot be had from the CRA, the next step to explore would be a consumer proposal. As in dealing with other debts, the trustee would file a proposal for repayment of a portion of the outstanding debt to the CRA, which may choose to accept the proposal.

If either of those avenues fails, then bankruptcy would be the final option. But remember, as you keep working under your new financial freedom, income tax keeps accruing, and if you’re not getting taxes deducted off a paycheque, then there is the chance you may not be able to pay off the accumulation at the end of each year and that would be considered new debt for which you are responsible.

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What debts can be part of my bankruptcy?

Before you and your credit counsellor decide that bankruptcy is the right option for you, you need to know which of your debts will be erased following your discharge.

Unsecured debts

Unsecured debts are those obtained with no collateral, such as a house or a car the lender can seize and sell should you fail to repay the debt as agreed. It commonly includes credit cards and lines of credit. You can’t go out and buy a new motorcycle on your credit card, declare bankruptcy the next day and keep your new toy (which is likely to constitute fraud), but for the most part items that you purchase on a card or line of credit remain yours even after bankruptcy. Utility bills, medical bill, phone bills and taxes are other examples of unsecured debts.  There are some exceptions —always fully disclose all of your debts to your prospective bankruptcy trustee to find out for sure what is eligible — but most unsecured debts are discharged in bankruptcy.

Secured debts

Secured debts are those on which the lender continues to hold some sort of title or lien that lets them seize and sell the asset to recover their money should you fail to repay as agreed. The biggest secured loan most people have is a mortgage on a home. Secured debts are not discharged in bankruptcy. Again, you should discuss the particulars of your individual case with a qualified professional, but in general negative equity (if the security is worth less than the outstanding balance of the loan) means that you can simply default on the debt and surrender the asset, while if you do have equity (if for example your home is worth more than the amount of your mortgage), the amount will be included in your bankruptcy estate to be divided among your creditors, and you may have to sell the asset.

Student loans

Discharge does erase your obligation to repay your student loans if it has been more than seven years since you stopped being a full-time student when you file for bankruptcy. If you’re cutting it close, make sure you check the federal or provincial legislation applicable to your loans to find out the official date on which you stopped being a full-time student. A court may decide to reduce this time period to five years if you can prove repaying the loan will cause you “undue hardship”; you’d have to apply for an early discharge of your student loan debts that may be granted if you have acted in good faith with regard to repayment and are experiencing financial difficulty that prevents you from repaying them. To determine good faith, a court will look at how you spent your student loan funds, whether you made efforts to complete the education for which you borrowed the funds, whether you’ve made sufficient effort to repay them, and whether you have first made use of any available government repayment assistance programs.

You should always discuss your finances honestly and completely with a qualified credit counsellor before making any decisions about declaring bankruptcy. There may be other solutions available

 

I filed a Consumer Proposal. How does creditor voting work?

For many people, a consumer proposal as a solution to financial difficulties is preferable to declaring bankruptcy because it causes a little less damage to their credit scores and/or lets them keep their assets. It also lets people honor their debts by repaying them over time, but has the added benefit of generally requiring them to repay only a small percentage of what they actually owe.

You can file a consumer proposal that includes all your unsecured debts through a trustee. From the date your proposal is filed, you stop making payments on your debts directly to your creditors, and any actions in effect against you such as a garnishee of wages or a lawsuit also stop.

From the date of filing with the Office of the Superintendent of Bankruptcy (OSB), your creditors have 45 days to respond. If a majority of your creditors by dollar amount accept the terms (i.e. 50% of your debt, plus $1), the proposal is accepted and all creditors must abide by its terms.

If creditors totaling at least 25% of your debt request one, a meeting of creditors may be held within 21 days of filing. A Trustee office can also call a meeting if desired. Your creditors will then vote at the meeting. If a quorum of creditors fail to show, the proposal is accepted.

Most reasonable consumer proposals don’t require a meeting of creditors. Although it usually means only some part of the total debt will be repaid, creditors know that if they don’t accept a proposal, it could drive the debtor to bankruptcy, in which case they get nothing.

If your proposal is approved, you will then make agreed-upon payments through your trustee to your creditors over a period not longer than five years.

If you think you may be headed for financial trouble, talk to a qualified credit counsellor about your options as soon as possible. The sooner you act, the sooner you can put those troubles behind you.

Getting beyond bad spending habits

In a perfect world, we would all live within our means, save responsibly, pay cash for everything except our home, support worthwhile charities, invest wisely, and carry sufficient insurance. We seldom, do, though. Many of us have some bad spending habits that can be hard to break.

An honest assessment of your own habits should start to paint a picture of your money management capabilities. It doesn’t mean anyone else gets to decide your priorities — if you’d rather eat out every night than have a new car every couple of years, that’s entirely up to you. But if you’ve can’t afford both but have both anyway, or if you’ve budgeted for $250 a week for dining out and are spending more than $1,000, you have developed some very bad habits.

Have a good, hard look at your spending patterns. Do you buy when you’re upset or to alleviate boredom? Do you have no clue exactly what your income is, or how much you spend? Do you live in overdraft or put necessities like gas and groceries on a card, and then not pay it off at the end of the month?

Start keeping a money journal. Track not only what you spend and on what, but also how you felt at the time and any extenuating circumstances that led to the bad spending behaviour. Had you just gotten off the phone with your mother when you spend $100 you didn’t really have on eBay? Pay particular attention to little amounts that add up to a lot but bring nothing of value to your life, like late fees, bank charges, and interest on your debts. When you really, really realize that you’re spending $250/month on nothing, you will absolutely hate doing so.

Here are some examples of bad spending habits:

–          Paying for necessities on credit

–          Paying for premium brands when other brands will do

–          Pay for storage; if you can’t fit all your stuff in your home, you have too much stuff

–          If you occasionally come home from a shopping trip only to discover you already own the book/movie/cardigan you just bought, you may need not only better spending habits, but a professional organizer besides.

–          You keep buying even when the money’s gone. If you have a certain budget for clothes, once the money’s gone, no more clothes. If that means you have to turn down days out with friends, get in the habit of turning them down.

–          Robbing Peter to pay Paul. If you’re using revolving credit to make credit card payments, you’re in trouble.

–          Spending what you don’t have for luxuries. Never buy vacations, clothes, jewelry, spa visits, theatre tickets or anything else you know deep down you can live without while you still have debts.

–          Spending more than you make. If you are going into the hole even by $20 or $50 every month, find a way to curb some spending to make up the shortfall. Small amounts add up to big debts.

To rehabilitate your spending behavior is not an easy task. As with dieting, you can’t live on willpower alone — white-knuckle budgeting seldom works, at least in the long run. “Make more” and “spend less” are oversimplifications. To really change your bad habits takes replacing them with new, better habits.

–          Have only the amount you intend to spend with you, and leave the credit cards at home. If you go out intending to spend $80 on a pair of new summer shoes, take $80 with you when you go shopping.

–          If you’re prone to impulse purchases, make yourself leave the store, go home, and then go back the next day if you can’t live without it. Ask yourself: Do I need it? Do I already own something like it? Do I have a place to put it?

–          Avoid temptation whenever possible. If you can’t handle a trip to the mall without coming home with three new books, a few highlights in your hair, and a three-course meal in your belly, don’t go to the mall.

–          Make a list of your financial goals, including amassing six months in emergency savings, and display it prominently in your den or kitchen. Don’t give up what you want for want you right now — what would you rather have? A new car, a swimming pool or a trip to Spain, or a $4 espresso on the way to work every day?

–          Be mindful of the real cost of what you’re buying in the most limited currency we have — time. It’s harder to spend money foolishly when you connect it to how hard-won money really is. Even if you make $100/hour or more, you’re still exchanging your life for material goods. Before you order the surf & turf, ask yourself if the steak and lobster dinner is worth an hour of your life. If it is, go ahead and enjoy it. If the idea of trading an hour of your life for a meal that won’t even take that long to eat makes you a little queasy, don’t do it. If you spend $100/month on gourmet coffee and make $20/hour, ask yourself if it’s worth five hours of your life every month to drink fancy lattes.

–          Leave your credit cards at home. If you want to keep an emergency card with you, knock the credit limit back to about $500. At least then if you do get yourself in trouble with it, it won’t amount to much.

The biggest favor you can do yourself when it comes to spending is to become mindful. When you realize what things really cost — once you factor in the time you spent earning the money and the interest you’re going to pay to charge it — you’ll think twice before you buy.